
Or if that’s a little overwhelming, start here. If you like it, publish it on their site - they might use it in a future book. Try reading some at the Smith Magazine website linked to above. But with a six-word memoir, a lot of these excuses disappear. It’s necessary - not just for us, but for future generations of trans people who will read these things and take solace in the fact that they are not alone and haven’t been for some time.īut there are a lot of reasons why we don’t write these stories - I don’t have time, I can’t write, it’s too emotional, it’s too painful, I don’t want to relive it. Many trans people want and need to write their life story. Otherwise, they would throw them out or give them away.īasically, a poor person or couple bought shoes they couldn’t afford for a baby they loved very much who died. Now they’re selling them - not just because the baby died, but because they need the money. The person or couple was anticipating the baby with love because they bought the shoes before the baby was born. But what it says to me is this: Someone had a baby who died before he or she was able to wear the shoes. This little story will mean different things to different people, as all short stories do. The result - “For sale: baby shoes, never worn.” Apparently, the writer was challenged to write a short story in exactly six words. The idea of the six-word memoir started, according to Smith Magazine, from a short story by Ernest Hemingway. Some of us (like me) who are ultra-prolific might do well to remember that. It seems impossible, but you really can pack a lot of meaning into six words.
MY LIFE IN SIX WORDS PLUS
There are several other six-word memoir books with various themes, plus some in the works, and the website is always taking entries - so check it out. It All Changed in an Instant is a follow-up to Not Quite What I Was Planning: Six-Word Memoirs by Writers Famous & Obscure, which made the New York Times bestseller list when it came out. There may be some other trans people in there as well, but I haven’t had time to read all the entries. Just remember to unmute.Īs for me? This about sums up my mundane memoir these days: “Plaid pajama bottoms, you get me.It All Changed in an Instant: More Six-Word Memoirs by Writers Famous & Obscure, the new six-word memoir book, is out from Smith Magazine, and I’m in it - which sounds special, but there are almost 1,000 six-word memoirs in this very compact paperback, including by Jennifer Finney Boylan and Quince Mountain. “Song of 2020: ‘You’re on mute.’”Īs you read this month’s issue, I hope you heed this message from our wise contributors: While this may not be the time to aim for exceptional goals, that doesn’t mean that we can’t support our kids (and ourselves!) in patching together a memorable and meaningful school year. But don’t take my word for it - rely instead on the trusted authority of Laura Kastner, Ph.D., Sayna Pelini, Ph.D., and homeschooling mom Tera Schreiber. “No joke: Expectations are premeditated resentments.”Īs I edited the stories for this month’s issue, a through-line theme stood out: To be present for our children, no matter our circumstances, we must not fail to prioritize self-care. This month’s feature story by Malia Jacobson notes one upside to this struggle: the opportunity to build a wellspring of resilience that will benefit all families and learners well beyond the pandemic. While the pandemic makes this year exceedingly challenging for every family navigating through circumstances well beyond their control, those with children who have special needs or learning differences are challenged significantly to replace in-person services and therapies for their children - not to mention the familiarity, comfort and respite those learning supports provide. “The ultramarathon we never trained for.”Įach October, ParentMap produces an “Every Child”-themed magazine issue and resource fair event to embrace and support the developmental and educational journeys of children of all abilities. With no shortage of fodder to inspire the exercise, I invited six-word observations from fellow ParentMap editors and contributors. If nothing else, this pandemic has given rise to some of our toughest moments - as individuals, as families, as communities both small and global. The most memorable of these, he says, bubble forth from our toughest and most joyous experiences. Since 2006, Larry Smith of The New York Times has been challenging readers to distill their lives in six words, a one-liner he calls the six-word memoir. “Most complicated school year in history.”
